The ‘university experience’ while living at home

When living at home is the norm (and not a downgrade)

When people think about university, they usually imagine moving out, living in dorms, and fully “starting a new life” away from home. But in Dubai, that’s not really the norm. A lot of us live at home…and honestly, you’re not missing out on anything.

I live in Abu Dhabi, and I study at the University of Birmingham Dubai. So instead of fully moving away, I split my week between both cities.

And weirdly…it’s the perfect balance.

My weekday–weekend split

During the week, I stay in Dubai for lectures at the VOGO Grand Hotel. If you’re thinking of doing something similar, I highly recommend reaching out to accommodation options early and asking about long-term contracts, depending on how many days you need. Some places offer weekly or long‑stay rates. It makes everything way easier once it’s sorted in advance.

Then on weekends, I drive back to Abu Dhabi to spend time with my family (and yes… get my laundry done, which is definitely a perk).

For me, this meant I could attend a top global University without travelling to the other side of the world. I’ve always liked being close to home and my family, and if I’m honest, full-on dorm life just wasn’t something I was that keen on. I like having my own space, but I also like knowing my family isn’t far. This way, I get independence during the week and home comfort on the weekends.

You’re not missing out, trust me

One thing people always assume is that if you don’t travel abroad for uni, you won’t have the “real” uni experience.

Not true.

I joined loads of clubs and societies pretty early on, the football team, the volleyball team (which I eventually captained), the Events Society, and the Activities Council.

Getting involved makes everything different. Suddenly, you’re not just commuting for lectures, you’re staying late for training, meetings, random conversations, setting up events and spontaneous plans after class with people you just met.

I’ve met so many friends through societies. Some of them also stay in accommodation during the week, like me, so we’ll hang out after uni finishes. You naturally build your own little routine and circle.

I’m also a University Student Casual Worker as a content creator, which is honestly one of the best parts of my experience. I get to meet loads of new people while filming content, and as someone who’s pretty outgoing, I genuinely love it.

It makes campus feel like more than just a place you attend — it feels like somewhere you belong.

Making campus your spot

One of the most important things I need to emphasise: don’t just come in for lectures and leave straight after (please).

I love being on campus as long as possible during the day. The main lobby is easily one of the best social spots, you’ll always run into someone you know.

Grabbing a coffee or a karak from the Atrium Café just becomes part of your routine.

The second-floor library is probably my friend group’s favourite area. It’s got that perfect balance, social enough that you can chat and laugh a bit, but quiet enough to get actual work done.

And when it’s time for a serious academic comeback? The quiet study area upstairs is where it’s at (don’t let it get to this point).