This summer I have begun looking at the correspondence between missionary parents and their children back in Britain. These letters reveal an incredible variety of insights that would not be found in the same way in the official record. Peppered in among discussions about school assignments, illness, Christmas gifts and sporting achievements are detailed descriptions of peoples, customs and rituals; promises of affection and signs of remembrance going both ways; and evidence of the hopes and fears, desires and doubts of generations and cultures in transition. Just as parents acted with their children’s personal and physical formation in mind, so children tailored their actions and words to desired ends – to comfort and cheer, to impress or defy, to mollify or influence their parents, siblings, and other children and adults.