From freshers to family: how societies shaped my experience

As I entered university for the first time, I was eager but also somewhat apprehensive. In an environment where there were so many people, I knew it was not going to be easy to find “my people.” It was through societies and clubs that university truly began to feel like home.

One of the biggest defining aspects of my university journey thus far has been my involvement with the Business Society, where I currently hold the position of Vice President. From attending a taster session, I have gone on to do so much more. It was here that I was able to develop my confidence and leadership skills in a practical sense. One of my proudest moments was helping run a networking evening with industry professionals. Seeing students and myself come out of comfort zones and make valuable connections was truly rewarding.

However, my position as Treasurer of the Hindu Society was equally, if not more, significant for me. While my work with the Business Society was crucial for my professional development, my work with the Hindu Society was significant for my cultural development. Celebrating festivals such as Diwali was a highlight for me, where people came together to celebrate an event together. This gave me a feeling close to being at home.

Aside from that, it’s the people that have made this experience so unique. I’ve met my current flatmates through Hindu Society events, and over time, my fellow committee members have become my closest group of friends. It’s been these relationships that have impacted my university experience the most.

Societies aren’t just about events; it’s about the moments in between too. It’s been planning events, preparing for big celebrations, and just enjoying each other’s company after a meeting that has made these relationships feel real and given me a sense of belonging. It’s given me a break from my academic pressures, too, knowing I have something to look forward to each week.

Being part of two societies has given me the chance to experience two completely different, yet equally important, aspects of university life. One has been challenging me professionally, while the other has been grounding me personally and culturally.

Looking back, I can honestly say it was one of the best decisions I have ever made. They have helped me develop my confidence, my identity, and my sense of belonging to a community that feels like my own. To anyone who is beginning university, my advice would be quite simple: get involved, be adventurous, and step outside your comfort zone, because you never know where it might lead you.